Only after 3 months we broke up, in June 2012 my ex has already started to look for another girlfriend…. within our same group of common friends. Can you believe that?
And he probably had tried going after every eligible girl in the group…. as of what I know, he went after one girl before and now he just hooked up with another one of my friends. What does that tell you?
He is really a jerk!!!!
When he was after me, the sweet nothings, we’ll never be apart again, he rather die first than have me die first, he searching for someone for so long and he knows I was the one, must know all my friends cos he’ll need their help to appease me if he ever made me unhappy, his infamous song from Lady Antebellum to share with you so that you’ll think he’s so romantic (yup I saw on facebook that he did the same with her), then forward you all the romantic korean songs, cook for you and take you to picnic, wants to meet your parents, then will ask to go on a trip with him etc. all in a guise to get a girl. It’s so clear and obvious now… and I was fool enough to believe all these sh*t.
So it was never true love with me…. he probably was addicted to romance and the chase and then bam, he walked out on me when he knew he got me…
I thought about his last “girlfriend” of whom he claimed that was not his girlfriend when I asked him about it. He said she stuck on to him… but the funny thing was my other friends told me he introduced her as his girlfriend during the gatherings when she was present. I heard that she even went to the airport to fetch him during one of his trip. NOW I SEE LIGHT. She was probably in the same situation as me and she tried hard to hang on to him after he became cold and distance from her. She probably suffered the same fate! I wonder how many before her also suffered the same fate. But bummer, I did not take that as a warning sign then!
Seriously I would never had considered him at all. The more I look at him, the more I cringed. He’s really one ugly guy…seriously… terrible kisser but I fell stupidly into his trap cos I thought he was a good man, gentlemen as he was a super nice guy in the group. SUPER NICE GUY to everyone. But now I think one must avoid those men who are constantly super nice to everyone, like trying to please everyone in the group by buying them stuffs and acting cute. Plus my close friend noticed that he always tried to act cute…
Why would anyone in their right mind go within the same group? He feels no remorse at all as no one in the group chastise him. In fact I was the one who had to kept quiet… I wrote his name in another blog post and I was chastised by another friend in the same group for doing so… So far only 4 persons in the group who truly knew what happened and the rest do not know. And because of this, everyone thinks this is a very nice and funny guy, so helpful and why this person always black face to him?
I become the bad guy.
Now it will become worse. Cos now he is with this girl from the group… in effect the outings will be super weird…
Thanks KS for making it even more weird for me in the group.
And I wonder what lies he tell her about his past relationships. Maybe he’ll tell her why he broke up with me – choosing one of the myriad of answers he gave to different person – that my parents don’t like him? different lifestyle? afraid that cannot make it work? As one of my friend puts in, he is a clever person and he’ll be super smart to cover up all his wrong doings.
If such a guy chased you, wowed you and then you learnt that he is such a jerk with a friend of yours, would you still go on with him?