He still owed me 2 more “magic moments” but he seemed to have forgotten about them.
Well, I read about the honeymoon period of the relationship & I was wondering when mine will end. I think it’s over. It seems to be he is taking me for granted.
Sigh.
Used to be that he will read everything I write on facebook, see all my pictures, like them, comment on them. Now no more… seems like he is looking at others postings more.
Used to be that he will read my blog. Now I am guessing no more… this I will know once this is published.
Used to accompany me for runs, now no more.
Used to go to interesting places with me & bringing his camera along to take photos. Now no more.
Used to go do romantic stuff like watching stars, picnic, go eat durians. Now no more. Now, we just go for food & movie….
Used to call me almost every night on the phone. But now it has reduced to just whatapps…. urgh. At least he still whatapps me everyday.
We had a chalet on Christmas day and I borrowed his sleeping bag. Ok right? But no, he told me that I had better to fold back the sleeping bag neatly back. I was pissed. Then I asked him to bring the bag back. And yet he did not seem to get that I was upset with him. It’s bugging me.
Then during Christmas, at his friend’s party, I had to go home early due to work appointment. He sent me to the train and went back to continue party until late. It used to be he will send me all the way home. Then the next day, he did not even tell me what happened the night before.
Just happened he even forgotten that he said to go Sentosa on the 31st Dec but ended up he went and organise a dinner with friends instead ( without even asking me first ). ( Perhaps he was sick a few days before & sick people tend to forget things? hmmm… that’s what women do huh? find excuses for men…) Plus it was the eve of the new year and I spent the countdown alone at home even though I had a boyfriend.
Now quite a few times, I do feel that he no longer missed me as much (he used to want to spend all the time with me) & sometimes he probably isn’t listening to what I am saying. Anyway, during courtship, I was priority… now it’s “priority with terms & conditions” … What’s worst is that now I felt that he puts his friends above me. I don’t know if it’s true but that’s how I felt.
I even posted something on his facebook wall ( a message for the new year ) which he deleted away…and did not tell me about it.
Is my expectation too high?
Or is this normal male behaviour?
Yesterday we went out for dinner. There was this famous beancurd dessert at this place but always long queue. I mentioned that I can try it… then he said “you want you go and queue yourself” ( he had tried it before )….I was really upset. Then I said “then nevermind, then I don’t want to eat.” He sensed I was unhappy and he went to queue to buy.
Then today sat is usually the day we go out. I asked him to go buy something with me. But he said he is meeting his friend and not going out with me. Then I text him about my feelings. No response from him at all. I had to ask if he cant be bothered anymore. Then finally he text to ask why I am so upset. Then I explained to him, to which he just said dun be upset and he was helping friend to move things. Then later on at night, he just text me a message that he is home. That’s all he text me after he knew I was upset. I don’t even get a call any more?
Just feeling so disappointed and upset.
