It finally did happen. Quietly, unexpectedly…
Love.
I don’t know much about love. Since young, I only read about love from those teenage love books, Mills & Boons… and then to watching feel good romance movies from Dirty Dancing ( watched a grand total of 4-5 times I think ), Reality Bites, Titanic etc then to the current popular HK/Japanese/Korean romance serials. My absolute favorites are Long Vacation ( Japanese ) & Secret Garden ( Korean ).
Come to think of it, I gave up on watching too mushy romantic serials or listening to love songs a few years ago – I guessed simply, to me they are all distractions and will only make you have unrealistic expectations of love in real life.
Plus I am not getting younger and I often wondered if my time has passed? Being alone is not really bad, I supposed. You have absolute freedom to do whatever you like, go wherever you wanna go. I was not sure but I know I am not one to get hitched for the sake of getting hitched. EEEK! Imagine getting married to someone who you have no feelings for, not attracted to and you have to face him for the rest of your life? I have also have heard of stories about marriages gone wrong! With the husband becoming abusive or has strayed. My worst nightmare! Then I am very sure I rather be single and happy.
And yet there are times, when I do feel envious of couples – they have each other to run to when they face problems, when they want a hug, when they want to someone to snuggle with, they can build their own home. But then again there are occasions when your married friends or couple friends have problems with their married life that you are thankful that you do not have and relish the fact that you are still single.
He found me in this case (in a song he dedicated to me, his heart found me… mushy but hey I love it…;P ). Life is so unpredictable!
As he blushfully admitted, he had a crush on me for quite some time. ME? Hmmm… I am flattered…
( Btw, he’s my no. 1 blog fan… so I am writing this with that in mind… hee hee )
To cut the long long long story, the short gist is that he took massive action ( with major help from me of course ).
And now we are a couple… sweet!
Namaste!









